
*****UPDATE*****
I found THE BEST home for Gigi!!! A woman from NextDoor (who is rarely on the site) just happened to be looking for a senior shepherd at that very moment in time. She had lost her senior shepherd a few years earlier, leaving one of her dogs feeling a bit lonely. I met her and her husband and was overjoyed.... I could not have found a more perfect pair to give Gigi a great life. I'm very grateful to them, as well as NextDoor. Gigi (now named Stormi) has a wonderful home. Me and her new Mom agree, it was kind of like a Universe / God thing. I can't help thinking her previous Mama, Patty, was helping out from the other side. Thank you Patty, for giving your girl so much loyalty and devotion. It looks like shes gonna have a great rest of her life till you guys meet up again on the other side of the rainbow bridge : )
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For the last six months, my friend Rob has been telling me about nn old friend of his named Patty, who just moved back into town after a long hiatus out of the area. She was 70 years old, and she was from the Bay Area, like Rob, but moved out of state for a while. She had been living with her son in Texas, but when she was unable to make the rent, he kicked her out. 😞.
Patty would have qualified for low-income, affordable housing in the bay area, if she was able to do just one thing... give up her dog, German (whom Rob calls Germie, and I call Gigi). But Patty - who got Gigi as a puppy over a decade ago (her 11th birthday was a few days ago) - absolutely refused. And I couldn't help admire her for it. I likely would have done the same thing. I have always viewed my pets as my own kids, and can't imagine giving a single one up if it meant they could end up getting euthanized in a shelter.
I had wanted to meet Patty and her dog - especially after Rob mentioned that German reminds him of my foster girl Poppy, whom I swear is like my autistic child. But they were located in San Jose and it's a bit of a drive for me. In the back of my head, I had been thinking of ways I could maybe offer her some kind of work or housing. But I've been going through serious hardships of my own, and am already pushing the limit for how many dogs I can help at a time. So I just kind of kept thinking about Patty in the back of my mind, but never got to actually meet her while she had been living out of her car in San Jose.

Sadly, a few days ago, Rob texted me with the news that Patty had died very suddenly and unexpectedly. She had been saying for a while that she had really wanted to take a shower, so Rob helped her up the stairs to their mutual friend Rachelle's place, and Rachelle let her use her shower. Rob and Patty were chit chatting in the kitchen while Patty was in the shower, and after about 10 minutes went by, they realized it was unusually quiet. Rachelle went to go check on Patti, and found her slumped over and unconscious. Her lips were turning blue and she didn't have a pulse. They called 911 and paramedics were able to bring up a slight pulse, but they were unable to completely revive her. It's heartbreaking.
Rob and Rachelle are waiting for the coroner to determine a cause of death, but my guess is that one of the factors will be heart failure. She must have felt so overwhelmed and depressed, after she had been kicked out of a place by her only son, living in a car that smelled like ammonia, because she and her dog were both experiencing some levels of incontinence (I wasn't aware of this until she had passed). And she could barely walk (something I didn't know till the other day). I am feeling really guilty now, because I feel like I should have offered for her to stay at my place. I didn't realize how dire her situation was. Rob said Patty suffered from allergies and Asthma, and when he had commented on the strong ammonia smell coming from her car, she said she didn't notice it. I shudder to think of what those fumes had been doing to her (and her dog's) health for the last 6 months. She couldn't have been getting a good night's sleep in her car, especially with how it smelled, and it's been cold lately. Rob said he offered her an extra blanket but Patti refused, saying she was fine.
I can only imagine how not having a place to live, besides your car, can definitely take a toll on your psyche and health and it sounds like it really led to Patty's downfall. She absolutely refused to give her Shepherd Girl up, and that sacrifice just made me feel like I needed to step in and try to help her dog if I can. I feel so bad for this woman. Excuse my French but it sounds like her son was a Grade-A A**hole. Rob just told me he once pounded Gigi on her head when he lost his temper (I think this is when Patty decided to leave).

This is a video still from when I first met Gigi... she's standing next to the car she lived in almost 24 hours a day. I wish I could explain to her, what happened to her Mama. Anyone who knows me knows that taking on another shepherd foster (likely to become a foster failure) is the VERY LAST thing I should even THINK ABOUT doing. But I found it impossible to just walk away from this situation.
Patty had been parking her car on the street by Rachelle's place. Rachelle's Mom (who realizes her daughter gets easily stressed and overwhelmed) could see that Rachelle was extremely anxious and stressed about Patty's death (and experiencing some PTSD because she had found another friend dead after choking on a chicken bone while drinking vodka). Because she had let Patty take a shower at her place, she was terrified that this would somehow cause her to lose her affordable housing. Rob has been trying to assure her that she was not in the wrong for letting her just take a shower at her place. If anything, you'd think it would have helped her lungs to clear out some of the fumes she'd been breathing in.
Rachelle's Mom said she was going to call Animal Control and have the dog sent away. I couldn't bear to let that happen. This poor dog was already devastated and confused over the fact that her loyal owner and lifelong guardian was now gone, and we had no way to explain to her what happened.
Since the car smelled like Ammonia (and so did Gigi), we took her to Pet Food Express, where we were able to give her a nice warm bath with lots of suds.
Gigi gets tired very easily as Patty was injured and felt unable to take her for walks on a daily basis. You can see her in this pic, sitting on a lawn that's just a few houses away from our house. She felt like she needed to sit and rest after walking less than half a block.
I gave her a Bemer treatment and she did seem to perk up a little after it. If you've never heard of PEMF technology, you can learn more about it
HERE. It's been given to racehorses to make them stronger, and it's helped to heal my other shepherds' injuries quickly.
It didn't help that her nails were unusually long. I feel really bad for Patty, and don't want to blame her too much for not walking her or cutting her nails, because clearly she was in a dark and overwhelming place for a while. I wish I could have done more to help her, but I didn't realize just how dire the situation was until it was too late.
Although it's not hard to get Gigi to smile, she definitely seems sad in general, trying to figure out what's going on. I feel terrible about the fact that there's no way to explain to her what happened to her Mom. I kinda wish they could have asked the cops to allow the dog to come inside and see her body, so she might understand that she wasn't being "abandoned."
Last night, she started howling in the middle of the night, and this went on for at least half an hour... it may have been an hour, You can hear some of it from our Furbo camera. I think she may have been doing this on the first night (when she was in the car all night because she refused to come out). My dogs started howling like crazy a few times nnd I'm thinking it was in response to her howling from the car.
So I had to go out to the living room and sleep with her on the couch. Luckily, it did stop the howling. I think she just needs to be comforted for a while.
Luckily, Rob was able to stop by and it really perked her up. It wasn't as comforting as if I had been able to bring her real owner back, but it was the closest thing to it, because Rob had seen her about 20 times before, and Patty was always there with Rob when they were hanging out. Gigi really needs some reassurance right now, that things are going to be ok, and it's helpful for her to have a familiar, friendly face around, after she just lost her owner AND her home (the car she was living in). I imagine she's been really scared and freaked out, not knowing what's going on or why.
Dogs tend to LOVE Rob (who has helped me out tremendously with my own dogs). Look at that smile on Gigi's face, after Rob stopped by to check on her and assure her that everything was gonna be OK. It was so cute, the way she lit up. I had to send these pics to Rob.
Sadly, Rob is not able to keep Gigi. So I'm hoping she will eventually come around and won't feel the need to howl in the middle of the night. This is her howling again when me, my boyfriend Sean and Rob all went out for lunch. We were just gone for a few hours, but when I checked the furbo from the restaurant, this is what I heard:
Gigi is extremely sweet-natured and my dogs welcomed her immediately. I was actually kind of shocked about this, as they tend to be very reactive towards other dogs on the street.
Titus immediately sniffed her out, and gave her a big grin of approval! Gigi reminds me a lot of Titus' old lady, Kali (in addition to Poppy). I wouldn't be surprised if both are part wolf. They both have those narrow jaws and bushy "wolf tails" that look like the end was dipped in ink.
Shelby meeting Gigi and wagging her tail...
For anyone who has never fostered or adopted a senior pet, I can tell you it is one of the most heartwarming experiences you can imagine.
She comes with a bag of dog food, and I also can donate a large dog crate and bedding. I am also happy to continue to give her (and her new owner) PEMF treatments, any time you want to stop by. You can learn more about the technology on this page:
If you or anyone you know might be interested in fostering or adopting Gigi, please get in touch with me via the contact form on the right side of this page. THANK YOU!!!
Laura